What is a Packer?

A packer is a prosthetic device designed to create the appearance of a bulge in the genital area. While primarily used by transgender men and transmasculine individuals, packers can be beneficial for anyone looking to enhance their masculine presentation or address body dysphoria.

Types of Packers

Soft Packers

• Made from soft, pliable materials like silicone or cyberskin
• Designed for everyday wear and a natural look
• Available in various sizes and skin tones

Hard Packers (Pack and Play)

• Dual-purpose devices for packing and sexual activity
• Often have a bendable rod or firmer core for erect positioning

STP (Stand-to-Pee) Packers

• Allow the wearer to urinate while standing
• Combine packing and urination functionality

Adhesive Packers

• Attach directly to the skin for secure wear
• Often used for activities like swimming or intense physical exercise

Choosing the Right Packer

Selecting the ideal packer depends on various factors:

• Purpose: Determine whether you need a packer for daily wear, sexual activity, or STP functionality.
• Size: Consider your body type and clothing preferences. A general rule is to choose a flaccid size slightly smaller than cisgender genitals to avoid an unrealistic appearance.
• Material: Silicone is durable and easy to clean, while cyberskin offers a more realistic feel but requires careful maintenance.
• Skin Tone: Many brands offer a range of colors to match different skin tones.
• Budget: Packers can range from affordable basic models to high-end custom prosthetics.

Check out our selection of packers here.

Using Your Packer Safely and Comfortably

Packing Methods

• Packing underwear: Specially designed underwear with a built-in pouch
• Harnesses: Provide secure and adjustable wear
• DIY methods: Using regular underwear with a safety pin or creating a fabric pouch

Positioning

Experiment to find the most comfortable and natural-looking position. Generally, the shaft points downward and slightly to one side.

Hygiene

• Clean your packer regularly with mild soap and warm water
• Allow it to air dry completely before storing
• For silicone packers, occasional boiling can provide deep cleaning

Storage

• Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight
• Use a dust-free container or bag to protect the material

Addressing Common Concerns

Dysphoria: While packers can significantly alleviate dysphoria for many, it's essential to remember that they're not necessary for everyone. Your gender identity is valid regardless of whether you choose to pack.

Public Spaces: Using public restrooms or locker rooms can be challenging. Consider practicing at home to build confidence in managing your packer discreetly.

Intimate Relationships: Communication is key. Discuss your packer use with partners to ensure mutual comfort and understanding.

Sports and Physical Activities: Opt for secure packing methods or adhesive packers for high-impact activities. Some individuals choose not to pack during intense exercise.

For more information on navigating social situations while packing, the National Center for Transgender Equality offers valuable resources: National Center for Transgender Equality.

Mental Health and Well-being

While packers can be affirming, it's crucial to prioritize overall mental health. If you're experiencing significant dysphoria or struggling with your gender identity, consider seeking support from a transgender-affirming therapist. The World Professional Association for Transgender Health provides a directory of qualified professionals: WPATH.

Conclusion

Packers can be an essential tool for many trans and non-binary individuals in expressing their gender identity and managing dysphoria. By understanding the types available, how to choose the right one, and proper care techniques, you can make informed decisions about incorporating packing into your life. Remember, there's no one-size-fits-all approach to gender expression, and your journey is unique and valid.

For Further Reading

• National Center for Transgender Equality
• World Professional Association for Transgender Health